Many, if not most, men are creatures who harbor plenty of insecurities. With technology being at everybody’s fingertips, infidelity is more natural. Computers, instant messaging, texting and cell phones take what an innocent friendship, an acquaintance, business partner or work colleague to an affair.
I believe that most men do not dream of being unfaithful. I guess even the best of them do it? Hanging out with other men and women who are cheaters would defiantly become a factor. Flirting back with a flirtatious person is another factor. Therefore cheating is a two-way street, and for cheaters, it is a revolving door.
If you are in a committed, monogamous relationship, you should ask yourself some questions before cheating: Why do you think about cheating? How will it affect your relationship with your partner? What is the worst-case scenario? Is it worth the cost?
"I think they should create a holiday for friends-with-benefits relationships. Because I feel like Valentine's Day is, maybe it's a day to stay home and cry." Elizabeth Meriwether
Should Women Share The Blame?
Unless the man is a complete jerk, I believe men cheat on women because the woman gives them reasons to do it. I think most are faithful unless his mate shows him different. If his partner is not giving him what he wants, then he will go and find it. What is a man to do when his woman starts hot and intimate then turn cold?
"Let the wife make the husband glad to come home, and let him make her sorry to see him leave.' Martin Luther
A Mistress Lifestyle
A mistresses job is to focus on helping and giving pleasure to men, at the same time as involving activities such as drinking fine wine, eating great food, listening to music and of course, having great sex. Mistresses take advantage of men’s uncontrollable or wandering needs.
These women are required because some married women have decided to cross their legs for an extended period and the husband has no choice but to arrange for some alternative. Other women have let themselves go — there is nothing less valued than a commodity that no one else wants. He can’t stand the sight of his partner and find cheating to be a solution.
These men (cheaters) look for women more desirable than their wives. These men get tired of being put down. They get sick of the arguments, so they go out to find someone to refuel.
Bottom Line, Become The Woman He Fell In Love With, Then You Will Have No Worries.
If you want to keep your man interested, you have to keep him intrigued. Take advantage of what he likes and pamper him a little. Make sure he feels like a man that is loved, and he'll feel like he's connected with you. He will secure that bond. Let him see you as a sexy woman.
- Be more mysterious.
- Be confident, look great. You can view your best, with a little effort. You don't need to be a model to look good.
- Personal hygiene is essential not only to look and smell your best, daily, but it is sexy to a man
- Smile more and lighten up on the nagging. No one enjoys an atmosphere of nagging, in any relationship. As a treat, do your man's task. Don't be so hard on him when he forgets something. Try to find some happiness.
If you trust him and he loves you, he won't want to give you a reason to revoke that trust.
The Sex Addict
Sex Addiction Is A Legitimate Mental Disorder
- A person is defined as a sex addict when his behavior gets out of control and starts to hurt his life. These feelings and behaviors cause lots of shame, hopelessness, and confusion for the sex addict. These feelings are also frequently accompanied by denial, despite it being an unmanageable problem in the sex addict's life.
Sexual addiction takes up an enormous amount of energy, and you know you’re in trouble when your behavior causes relationship breakdowns, job problems, legal issues, and a loss of interest in anything non-sexual. The first step is to talk to somebody, your general practitioner, your religious leader or a therapist.